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Wednesday 30th of November 2022

Nairobi, Kenya

Looking For The Perfect Sex Toy

Looking for the perfect sex toy isn’t easy but necessary in this never-ending lockdown. It’s always there whenever you need a pick-me-up or, it’s a long, lonely night because your loved one is in lockdown three counties away. Don’t die thirsty.

Sex Guru wants to introduce you to the world of sex toys so you can pick the perfect sex toy. Never leave your orgasms to chance.

ANAL PLUGS

The anal area is super sensitive and, anal plugs can help you orgasm. They are gender-neutral and combined with other stimulation. It can make your climax, more intense.

BEN WA BALLS

Ben Wa Balls go inside the vagina. They move around and create pleasure. The same balls used for Kegel exercises fall in the same class. They help strengthen your pelvic walls whilst doing all the work. 

BDSM

BDSM is something that’s often misunderstood yet popular at the same time. Most online sex shops, sell BDSM kits that can be used by couples that want to try to new things. Research about the different toys found in a kit. Always ask your partner for consent when you’re trying out something new.

CLIT SUCTION TOYS

It’s a toy placed directly on the clitoris and, it feels like you’re receiving cunnilingus. It’s perfect for women that are still looking for their first orgasm. Look for toys that offer different suction levels so you can vary the intensity till you hit that sweet spot.

COCK RING 

It cuts off blood flow heading to the penis and makes the orgasm more intense. Secondly, if you can find a vibrating one then, it’ll also stimulate the vulva area and please, your partner.

DILDOS

A dildo is a phallic-shaped object that can be inserted, in the vagina, anus or mouth. They are made, of different materials like steel, glass and plastic. Some are double-sided shaped like a U, but, others only have one side. It depends on how creative you want to be. Sometimes, it can be worn, with a harness to make it easier for you to penetrate your partner. 

HANDCUFFS

Handcuffs let you dominate and play with your partner. Be mindful of the material. Metallic ones will leave marks, during rough sex but feathery will be gentle on your partner.

LUBRICATION

It never hurts to have lubrication on the side because you never know when you’ll need it. Water-based lubes are recommendable, whether you’re having sex alone or with a partner since its friendly to sex toys. Silicone-based lubes is perfect for people with sensitive skin but, it’ll spoil silicone-based sex toys over time. Oil-based lubes, stay on longer but can cause condoms to tear or stain bedsheets.

VIBRATORS

A vibrator vibrates and can be used on your body to create or enhance sexual pleasure. It’ll leave you writhing in ecstasy. 

There are external vibrators. Of course, this includes vibrators that you can put in your underwear or those you can place on top of your vulva. The finger vibrator lets you work on yourself slowly. With clitoral vibrators, always pay attention to the shape that will work for your body type. Wand vibrators are intense and can be almost used anywhere on your body.

There are internal vibrators. These are perfect for people that get pleasure from penetration. An A-long vibrator is super long and used for deep penetration but, for less intense penetration use G-spot vibrator instead. Men can also look for prostate massagers to stimulate their prostate area.

Lastly, you have the rabbit vibrator that manages to combine an internal vibrator with an external vibrator. In conclusion. it lets you have the best of both worlds.

SEX SWING

A sex swing lets you and your partner experiment with each other whilst both of you, hang in the air. However, make sure that you’ve installed it properly so that you don’t get hurt in the heat of the moment.

A Slay Queen’s Guide To Surviving The Lockdown

A slay queen thrives under lockdown because there’s no alternative.

I mean, who’ll wear all those awesome clothes in your wardrobe. You’ve been saving those red bottom heels, for a special occasion. All the looks that you’ve put together for all the fun, social, fashionable events, that were indefinitely postponed till things are better.

I mean there’s only one version of you, and you need to put all your haters to shame. Of course, it’ll be hard for you to get the usual essentials in this lockdown.

This lockdown might stretch for a while into the unforeseeable future. So what’s the best way to stay ahead of the curve.

First, don’t let your skin suffer under any circumstances. You might need a dermatologist on speed dial. Of course, you can’t get stressed out and break out in hives like in high school while you were fighting against hormones.

A true slayer knows that a smooth face is the best foundation for makeup. You need to order for all your skincare items to be brought to your doorstep.

Secondly, don’t forget to look after your hair. You might have to smuggle your stylist to do an emergency touch-up or to remove your weave. However, if you’re in the middle of nowhere with strange saloons then you’ll have to invest in low-maintenance styles and perhaps a wig, or two.

After all, you can change your hairstyle whenever you’re bored. Remember to wash and oil your hair as you wait for your favourite spa to reopen.

Indeed, you have to put aside delicate clothes. You know, that you can’t visit the dry cleaners, so why risk staining your cashmere sweater with take-out food from ArtCafe. I mean, this isn’t the time to take fashion risks. You should only wear cotton or other garments that are machine-wash friendly.

The gym is no longer a haven. You can’t wear tight yoga pants and lacy sports bras and snap pictures of yourself looking toned. You know that your clothes are a certain size. Hence, outgrowing your clothes isn’t an option. A slay queen needs to flourish during difficult times. You only have one option: figure out how to work out from home.

Stock up on luxury essentials. I’m talking about those pricey perfumes, that come in pretty shapes, and sizes. Also, foreign chocolates, that can’t be sourced locally. Let’s not forget all your top make-up brands’ products. Nobody knows when the lockdown will end. What if that day is tomorrow? You need to prepared to look your best.

Don’t entertain any house guests at any costs. I mean, isn’t everyone preaching about social distancing.

Don’t waste your time obsessing and flaunting yourself online. You can’t announce all your boss moves and wonder why haters are one step ahead of you. It helps to keep your enemies confused as to your plot your way ahead.

You have to study fashion and make-up trends from around the globe. Indeed, you can dedicate time to piecing together new looks, practising poses and snapping away pictures. Besides, you need to look like a fashionable badass whenever you post anything online.

You need to consider learning the basics of a new foreign language. Besides, you’ll always be travelling, I mean hello Emirates Business Class, I’m coming back to you.

You didn’t bake in the hot sun, wearing stilettos at Huduma Centre, waiting for a new passport to chill at home.

Self-Care During Lockdown Vibes

It’s a major lockdown vibe as most of us are required to stay indoors or at least limit movement.

 

Nairobi Fashion Hub has self-care tips for you:

a) Limit how much time you spend absorbing stories that affect you negatively.

b) Keep fit by doing simple exercises indoors.

c) If you’re staying with kids, then, you can set aside time to play with them in the evenings.

d) Call up your friends and family or Skype them. It’s easy to forget voices or what your friends & family members look like.

e) Set aside time to pamper yourself. You can work on your hair at home and give it tender loving care. You can work on your nails or face masks to keep your skin smooth & soft.

f) Eat plenty of fruits & vegetables. To keep your immune system, strong & healthy.

g) Try out new recipes that you’ve been dying about…this includes baking in case you have a sweet tooth.

h) Listen to the sort of music that soothes your soul. The right tune has a healing touch.

i) Set aside time to go offline every day.

j) Find time to meditate & centre your energy so that you’re not pouring from a half-empty cup.

k) If you have access to seeds & soil or a garden. Use your hands, plant your seeds and water them daily. It’ll give you something to look forward to.

l) Make a list of all the movies & TV series that have been pending on your wish list. Also, get recommendations from trusted friends about what you should look for.

m) Keep it locked on Nairobi Fashion Hub so that you can learn about make-up & fashion tips that you can try out at home. So that you’re ready when it’s time to step outside again.

Images courtesy Tiny Tribes &  Pixabay/Pexels

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